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Random musings no.3

Packing and decluttering, whether intended or not, always give you unecessary feels. For example, seeing these after completely forgetting about them made me realise how the universe sometimes has a way of toying with you. Not that I used them often but for some reason, I had one consistently every year. Three of it given by friends and the Muji 2018 one, I bought as a souvenir in Japan.

For 2019 though, I didn’t think of getting myself one nor was there anything given. Coincidentally, just finding it funny how it is also this year that I had a lot of “unplanned” and “no plans.”

Nice play indeed.

gutter ito!

Random musings no.3

Yesterday I was asked to complete some forms for this first ever job post overseas which I was fortunate enough to secure nearly two months ago. I was able to pretty much fill out without difficulty all the questions in a breeze; except for one that kept me thinking as to who would be the most appropriate option to designate. The statement in question was:

Please state an emergency contact person and details:

That being said, the difficulty was apparent for many reasons. One, is that being apart from my immediate family (who for my 7 years in the working industry has always been my constant answer for questions like these), I cannot simply consider my parents nor my siblings to be the best choice for now due to obvious circumstances. And two, is the bitter fact that I actually do not have any other family members, no matter how distant, within a 5-mile radius (make that 20 and still no luck). I wouldn't even mind putting one of my best friends' names who would know exactly what to do in case there's a need for me to be put into life-support after a fatal accident, but of course they are also a thousand miles away. Who would have thought that a standard employment question would be so difficult to answer?

I ended up putting a friend's name on that item whom I have just started to become close with from the time I moved here. Might be a common story for other people but odd for me who has lived 26 years in our home with family. So yes, I guess sometimes in life, you find yourself stuck and deep in thought saddeneddue to the most trivial things.

haponesa

Random musings no. 2

Some people just have so much time in their hands that I cannot even begin to fathom how, why, and most especially what they do in their daily lives that they can amass such an amount of free time.

Please tell me. I am rather amused.

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Reality bites, and it stings!

Every Overseas (Filipino) Worker has a sad story to tell. I am sure of it. There goes the cold and blood-freezing winters, endless empty deserts, haunted-house-looking or sardines-kind-of-cramped accommodations, and the lonely birthdays/Christmases/holidays. Each may have different versions and impact, but I think what remains constant is the fact that the moment we stepped into that plane was a start of a totally different life. And when I say different I meant that in all aspects of that cliché I could ever think of.

I do not even consider myself yet as a full pledged OFW as apparently I am not yet officially employed (hopefully getting there), but I have already had a fair share of sad stories. The efforts to survive on a daily basis with the fangs of this monster I'd like to call homesickness slowly biting into my skin are in itself a struggle. While it is true that I am homesick every single day, I was already prepared for this dilemma when I decided to leave and work in a different country. The harsher reality was not that actually, but the slow discovery of the truth that life goes on back home, and to feel a little out of place is inevitable.

I thank God that I do have a supportive family, partner and set of friends who update me from time to time through the wonders of modern technology. However, I guess all overseas workers would agree with me when I say that no matter fast your internet connection may be, or how highly defined your video calls can get, it still cannot erase the fact that you are actually not there, experiencing that particular moment, real time. There will always be that 'gap' between you and those important life events spent without you. The Christmas dinners and New Year celebrations which cannot be put on rewind which you only get to experience via skype (on a totally different time zone most of the time), or witnessing the birthday candles blown on parties you will never ever get to attend again, or having Friday night dates that cannot commence every single week simply because you and your partner are apart, or even joining the random dinners with friends on a newly discovered restaurant. All of these experiences will all just be has-beens, past tense, finished, done. And you, who were away, will never ever be a part of it. Truth is, most of these important milestones will happen and, though you are missed, will not actually require your actual presence for it to take place. The lives of the people you left will move on, and even if you are aware of it happening, no amount of gatherings every time you go home will ever be enough to replace the feeling of being physically there on a particular moment. They have a life back home and will continue to live it, and of course you also have your own, only that it is revolving on a totally different pace and realities.

In my case, while the Philippines will always be my home, I have started to also accept (though sadly) the fact that it is no longer where my life is. And this, my friends, is my very own version of the OFW sad story.

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today

I have always wanted to go back to writing, for years now, but for some (a lot of actually) reason I just can't seem to find myself starting to do so.

Today, with much idle time in my hands and discovering that this journal is in fact about to enter its tenth year since the time of its conception (that is if we do include the time it has been inactive which almost sums up to 4 years), I have finally decided to change the layout to something more fitting to my present tita state and pretty much describes my current view in life.

Well I guess that's a start.
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random musings no. 1

some people, no matter how old they get, seem to have not outgrown their ID personality or the pleasure seeking principle. they will constantly think of themselves in all given situations. they will pretend they are concerned and have false pride, but perhaps only to make a good impression towards others and not with pure intentions. in short, CONCEITED. they choose to hurt, disturb and go out of other people's ways, just so they can get what they want. they think the world revolves around them, when obviously there are other MORE important things that matter. they like being ill-mannered, because for them it makes them HARDCORE. and they're proud of it. in short, IMMATURE.
Lord, give me not just the strength but also the heart to understand them better. that's my prayer for tonight. thank you.

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breathe in. breathe out.
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a 5 minute blog wouldn't hurt

since two students bailed on me today, i got some time to do this. 5 more minutes to be exact.
being in front of a computer (as a requirement) and having nothing to do makes me look-up things i shouldn't look-up, and think of things i shouldn't think about.

and i am having sort of a normal ordinary day when it should be great, extraordinaire, or at least i think it should be. and then you discover some people would actually give a bouquet of sharpened pencils to the person he adores. just great.

i told you i shouldn't be over surfing.

i am not making much sense am i? enough. anyway the next student happened to have just popped into my skype and i have to prepare.
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  • Current Mood: distressed distressed
  • Current Music: korean blahs
haponesa

an old common note.

i know i've said in one of my previous blog posts that old habits can make you feel very nostalgic and lonely at the same time. though i still stand on that ground, however there are also some that in my opinion are best left as an old habit. nothing more.

these old "patterns of living", along with the people involved when you were so drunken mad about it, used to be the good times. and it will always be a good memory, no doubt about that. but when asked if you want to go over that moment again and reconnect with the people who used to be a part of your everyday existence, the best answer you could give is the sad truth that no, you just rather have it (and them) remembered.

right now i say in all honesty that i'm fine with what i have, what i do, and the few circle of people i am with.

i am moving forward. and i am happy. so very happy in fact.


* mood: i have an upset stomach (connection?)
* music:smile like you mean it - the killers
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  • Current Music: smile like you mean it - the killers